With a shy smile and a book still in her hand, 61-year-old Narinder Kaur stands at the door of her home in Sarhali village near Phagwara as a young woman greets her warmly, “Congratulations, Aunty ji.”Blushing with pride, Narinder Kaur softly replies, “Thank you ji.” Then, walking back into her room lined with books and notebooks, she says with quiet joy, “Mainu famous krta meri padhai ne (my education has made me famous).”At an age when many people believe dreams have already passed them by, Narinder Kaur has proven otherwise. After a gap of nearly 45 years, she appeared for the Punjab School Education Board (PSEB) Class X open school examination and scored an impressive 77 per cent marks.But for Narinder Kaur, these marks are much more than numbers; the fulfilment of a lifelong dream. She had to leave her studies in 1981. Seven years later, she got married, but the desire to continue studying never left her heart.“Those years were emotionally very difficult,” she recalls. “I would often dream of going to college. I even requested relatives to convince my family to let me study, but it never happened.”Later, she asked her husband for permission to continue her education, but he too refused. Still, the love for learning remained alive. “Mainu padhayi naal bahut pyaar hai (I’m fond of studies),” she says, her eyes filling with tears.It was only years later when Narinder shared her unfinished dream with her sons living abroad that life finally changed. “They told me, ‘If you want to study, then you must do it,’” she says with a smile. Excited and nervous at the same time, Narinder rushed to a bookstore and bought textbooks and notebooks. But restarting after four decades was not easy.“I couldn’t even hold a pen properly after 45 years,” she says, laughing gently. “So I practised writing every day for more than two hours.” Slowly, determination replaced hesitation.The small room in her house today tells the story of her dedication. Books are neatly stacked on the table, while notebooks filled with handwritten notes for subjects like English, Punjabi, Science, Social Studies, Hindi and Physical Education lie nearby. Not for grandchildren, but for herself.Narinder prepared entirely through self-study, without tuition or coaching classes. Her favourite subject was English. Students appearing for the exam alongside her soon grew fond of her determination and even began asking her to explain difficult concepts.“She inspired everyone around her,” says a local resident. For Narinder, Class X is only the beginning. “Eh te shuruat hai (this is the beginning). I will do graduation as well,” she says confidently.Whenever she talks about education, emotions overwhelm her. The years of sacrifice, silence and suppressed dreams still linger in her voice.But along with studies, Narinder also carries another passion–that is singing. She loves singing traditional Punjabi songs like ‘Madhaniya… haye oh mere dhadeya rabba’, songs that reflect the struggles and emotions of women.“I still feel girls are not fully independent. They should be allowed to do anything and everything they want,” she says thoughtfully.


